Thank You

Thank you so much to all of you who left sweet comments and sent me well wishes after yesterday’s post.  It made me feel so much better!  I felt like Eeyore – all glum and depressing and bringing everyone down!

I am feeling much better.  Chris and I made a decision (I’ll tell you about it later) and that has taken a lot of the stress and worry off my plate.  The truth is that I for 99% of the time that we’ve been here, I’ve felt fine – happy, content, pleased with our situation and mindful of the fact that there are others who are in worse straits than me. We’ve made some great friends here, people who if I needed to, I could call and chat over cocoa.  We have a warm and friendly church community.  I know several Americans here who can commiserate on the things that we’ve left back in the States.  I’ve also got a wonderful husband :-)  Overall, I’m doing just fine.  God is in control, and He’s shown me again and again that he’s not going to let me take more than I can bear.

Thanks again for being so sweet and understanding {and for the many offers from people who were willing to ship stuff over here – love it!  Thankfully, I have 5 sisters, 4 brothers, 6 sisters-in-law, 5 brothers-in-law, a mother- and father-in-law, and my parents who are all willing to ship things, too!}.  You guys are great :-)

A mild, utterly unserious, and completely non-contagious case of homesickness blues

I miss Target

And while we’re at it, I miss Walmart, Meijer, Sam’s Club, and Costco

I miss being able to buy a new-release paperback book off the shelf for less than $40.00 {thank goodness for my Kindle!}

I miss Trader Joe’s and Penzeys Spices

I miss my SUV

I miss cheap gasoline

I miss having the option of getting a diet fountain coke for 50 cents {even though I steer clear of caffeine}

I miss J.Crew, Banana Republic, Macy*s, Nordstrom, LL Bean, Lands’ End, Gap, Old Navy, and Cambria Cove

I miss Goodwill and Craigslist

I miss living in a place where just about every store will ship to you… for less than $100

I miss American prices on things like clothing, shoes, furniture, food, and entertainment

I miss cell phone and internet packages chock-full of freebies: phone vouchers, free minutes, free texting, free calling within network… sigh

I miss Tostitos Baked Scoops, Corona Light, reduced-fat microwave Kettle Corn, Firefly Sweet Tea vodka, marshmallows that aren’t covered in some weird, powdery stuff, Reese Cups, and good barbecue sauce

I miss convenience foods like Cool Whip and ready-made pie crust and frozen bread dough

I miss Netflix and Hulu

I miss family

I miss Bear

I miss having a nurse:patient ratio of 1:4, 1:5 occasionally, and 1:6 at an out-of-the-norm maximum

I miss US technology, especially at work

I miss my old co-workers

I miss Papa John’s Pizza, Olive Garden, Hacienda, Puerto Vallarta, and Panera

I miss living in a place where people don’t think that I have an accent

I miss summer

I miss the USA

It’s safe to say that I’ve come down with a mild case of homesickness blues.  I think it’s partly been spurred on by starting a new job {lots of differences between US and NZ healthcare!} and having our things arrive and seeing my stuffed bear that I’ve had since the first grade and realizing that he is in New Zealand… with me!  It’s also related to reading Facebook and Twitter posts written about people’s daily chores – Target runs, eating out at various American restaurants, cute shoes they just bought from a US store that doesn’t ship to New Zealand.  I will get over it, and I’m not turning into a melancholy, mopey, immovable mass who’s stuffing her face with milk and muffins and musing about moving {although I have apparently developed a love of alliteration}.

The earliest date that we might both go home for a visit would be November/December 2011.  Chris has summer break from November 14th – February 26th {Which, side bar: can you believe how long of a break that is?!  It’s 107 days!  Yes, I counted – it’s 15 weeks and 2 days}.  At this point in time, I am seriously considering phoning my parents and in-laws and saying, “Guess what?!  We’re coming home for the entire New Zealand summer and we’ll be living with you.  Hope that’s OK!”  Of course, this would mean being back in the US in Fall/Winter, which wouldn’t be all that wonderful, but I think I could deal with it.

There’s also the possibility that Chris might be making a “quick” one-week visit back to the States sometime in April 2011 for a family event.  One week is a quick turnaround, if you do the math:

  • Leave New Zealand on Monday
  • Fly for 24 hours {but gain a day}
  • Arrive in the US on Monday
  • Do family events Tuesday – Thursday
  • Board a plane back to NZ on Friday
  • Fly for 24 hours {and lose a day}
  • Arrive in NZ on Sunday

If he does make the trip, I may turn a bit devious.  I usually pack Chris’ suitcase, so I might just put in one change of clothes, fill the rest of the suitcase with crumpled paper and an extra bag, and then send him an email while he’s in the air informing him of the ruse and giving explicit instructions on which items he is to purchase and bring back.  Cue evil laugh somewhat similar to this…

I know, I know – that would be mean and being mean is bad.  But sometimes, being bad feels really good, don’t you think ;-)

“Broken: A Novel” – July Book Review

Hello, my lovely readers, and welcome to July’s book review.  To read more about my book review approach, giveaways, and previous book selections, click here.

This month, I’ve selected the novel “Broken”, by Travis Thrasher

{ISBN 0446505552, FaithWords Publishing, May 2010, 288 pages}

Broken tells the story of Laila, a young woman who left Small Town, Texas at the age of 17 courtesy of a lucrative modeling contract in NYC.  Full of hope and rosy dreams, Laila envisions a life for herself filled with love and glamour, but discovers that living a life based solely on the surface can lead to a harsh reality.  Ten years later, 27 year old Laila finds herself working as a highly paid escort in Chicago, a far cry from the fashion magazine covers of her younger years.

Laila’s experience with men has been one horrible ordeal after another – used, abused, utterly crushed, abandoned, and left like a sack of garbage again and again.  She’s unable to fathom or trust a relationship with any man who claims that he “only wants to love her”.  She’s surrounded her heart with a thick wall for protection, and isn’t about to let anyone in.  She doesn’t think she can fall any lower – a former model who’s working as an overly glorified prostitute with no meaningful relationships while completely cut off from her family.

But things can always get worse.

On New Year’s Eve, Laila shoots a sadistic client in self-defense.  Covered in blood and afraid of the repercussions, she clears out of Chicago and moves to Greenville, SC, looking for escape and anonymity while working as a bank teller.

You can’t leave your sins behind you, though, and Laila’s trouble follows her South.  Despite the offered friendships of both her neighbor and a fellow employee, Laila feels utterly alone.  She is overwhelmed by the guilt of past choices and nightmares blur with reality.  Peace eludes her, and when reminders of Chicago make their presence known, Laila doesn’t know what else to do except run.

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Broken has an overwhelming theme of redemption and the search for absolution.  There’s anger, hate, lust, selfishness, and fear, but also concern and the barest glimmer of nervous hope.

It’s written from the perspectives of several different people – Laila, her brother, and her pursuers – and can be confusing at times.  In the pursuit of making sure that the reader understands that no one is perfect, Thrasher makes his characters almost too flawed.  There’s very little that’s likable about the main character.  She’s depressing, selfish, and discouraging.  In short, she’s a mess.  Some elements of the story seemed hokey and didn’t makes sense.  The author ties in supernatural elements, but you can’t tell if he wants you to believe that Laila has gone mad, that ghosts are real, or that demons are haunting her every step.  Messages left for Laila in a rather creepy, ghoulish fashion are apparently delivered by “good” angels or spirits, despite the fact that they’re written in dripping, red letters and she nearly drowns while being forced to read some of them.

The idea of this story is a good one, but the delivery needs some work.  I normally do a giveaway with each review, but a giveaway seems like tacit endorsement.  I’ve decided that, from here on out, I’ll only do giveaways for books that I really enjoy and want to share.  Hopefully, I’ll be able to do a giveaway next month!

Menu Monday

I had my first online grocery shopping experience this weekend, and I’m hooked!  It was so cool to shop in my pajamas while watching “Friends” on Friday night.  That’s right – I just admitted that I was watching re-runs in my PJs on a Friday night.  In my defense, it was rainy, I was tired, and I’ve been without a TV for the last 2 months, so there!

Anyway….

I went online, browsed the “aisles”, checked things off my list, selected a delivery time, and paid for it all.  It was delivered to my door with a smile by 10:30am the next morning, and I couldn’t help but feel spoiled as I toted my groceries from the front door to my kitchen.  So nice :-)  There is a delivery fee, but if you spend more, the delivery fee is less.  I’m going to try to do a 2-week menu plan so that the delivery fee is less and we don’t pay it as often, and then maybe make a mini mid-way trip for perishables such as milk.

So, on to the menu!  I’m working three 12s this week, and I really don’t like having to cook after walking home from the hospital.  Chris is there, but I’ve learned that whenever he really “cooks”, the kitchen looks like a mini disaster area – dishes stacked, sauce on the bottoms of the upper cabinets, drawers hanging open, spinach burnt onto the stove top, and cheese on the floor.  Are you getting the mental image?  Good.  Now you know why I’d rather just do the cooking myself, ha ha!

Monday

Macaroni and cheese from a box and frozen veggies.  I know, I know – it stinks as a dinner, but I have it on hand and I work Monday.  I only have a few boxes of this leftover from the States, so it won’t be a meal too often :-)

Tuesday

Spinach casserole.  So good!  Spinach, reduced-fat cottage cheese, reduced-fat cheddar {or tasty cheese, as they say in NZ – love it!}, sauteed onions, eggs, flour, and margarine/butter.  Mix it all up in big bowl, put it in a pan, and bake!  Let me know if you want the recipe :-)

Wednesday

Leftover spinach casserole

Thursday

Pan-Fried Falafel with sun-dried tomatoes and coriander {sounds fancy, but it’s sold at the grocery for minor ducats and tastes fabulous}

Friday

Chicken Stir-Fry {I didn’t make this last week, so I’m going to do it this week instead}

It’s not much of a menu – there’s basically only one meal that follows a recipe, but I could care less!

So tell me, what’s cooking in your kitchen this week?  Do you cook from a menu or just go with whatever you have on hand?  As usual, feel free to share any of your favorite recipes with me!

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Mini Vacation to Waiheke Island

I’ve got my work schedule for the next few weeks, and the great news is that I have a couple of days off during Chris’ university’s mid-semester break.  Soooooo… I decided to plan a mini-vacation!  It’s time we did a bit more exploring in our new country, don’t you think?  I do!

So, where are we going?  Waiheke Island!

A few weeks back, one of the coupon websites I subscribe to had a deal where you could get a round-trip ferry ride from Auckland to Waiheke for $10.  Not bad, huh?  So we snagged two and decided to make a visit once our schedules were a bit clearer.  We’ll take the ferry to Waiheke and stay 1 or 2 nights, get a rental car, and drive around to several vineyards.  Waiheke is famous for their vineyards and produce, and I’m looking forward to going to a couple of different tastings as well as seeing the island.

I’ve been researching accommodations and narrowed it down to three that strike my fancy, each of which is “self-contained”, or comes with kitchen facilities.  One has an all-inclusive package: rental car, rental kayak, 2 nights’ stay, 2 three-course breakfasts, a basket of Waiheke Island produce, and vouchers to one of the vineyard restaurants for a total cost of $560.  It also got great reviews on TripAdvisor.com.

Another place has amazing views and great accommodations, but might be a bit more expensive: $390 for 2 nights, plus an additional $100 for a rental car {every rental company on the island charges $50/day} with no meals included.

And then there’s this one with free wine-tastings and another fabulous view…

Decisions, decisions!

Right now, I’m really leaning towards the last option.  It’s $345 for Thursday and Friday night, plus an additional $100 for a rental car and includes breakfast, wine, and appetizers, as well.  All of these accommodations require a minimum 2-night stay, which is fairly typical across the entire island.

I’m excited to explore our new country a little bit more :-)  I can’t wait!

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Seinfeld as an Action Film

This trailer is hilarious.

Menu Monday

Since I started work this week, the menu is a lot of easy, quick-prep meals.  Anything that can be made in advance is good!  Chris is so funny – when I told him that I was going back to work on Monday {this was last week}, he was excited… at first.  Then a few hours later, he said, “I’m not happy about you going back to work.  I think you should quit.”  I said, “What!  Why?!”, and he replied with, “Because if you start working, I’m going to have to start helping out around here!”

Oh, brother!

This week, it’s simple stuff…

Monday

Taco Soup – an old standby.  I made a big pot of this on Sunday and put it in the fridge, because it’s one of those meals that tastes better once the ingredients have time to fall in love.  You know what I mean ;-)  Although I have to admit that I about swallowed my gum when I saw the price of a small jar of salsa {one of the main ingredients} in New Zealand – $5.00!  I’ve already been on the hunt for a good freezer salsa recipe and I think that I may have found one

Tuesday

Leftover Taco Soup

Wednesday

Scrounge {This is what we call it when we have to find our own meals.  As in, “What’s for dinner tonight?  Are we scrounging?”  It’s just one of those things we say!}.  This usually means PB&J sandwiches or cereal or popcorn for dinner.  Or in Chris’ case – chocolate.

Thursday

Butternut Squash Cannelloni – I’ve never made this before, and I don’t have a recipe on hand for it.  One of the girls made it for a Sunday potluck dinner using kumara {sweet potato} and it looked and tasted so yummy that I want to give it a try.  It basically consists of ricotta cheese, cottage cheese, Parmesan, garlic, salt & pepper, kumara {I’m using butternut squash, or “pumpkin” as they call it over here, instead of kumara}, onions, and parsley all mixed up and stuffed into cannelloni, then put in a 9×13 inch pan and covered with pasta sauce.

Friday

Leftover Cannelloni or Chicken Stir-Fry {frozen stir-fry mix + soy sauce + chicken}

What’s on your menu for the week?  If you’re in a relationship, do you do most of the cooking, does your partner, or do you split it 50/50?  Or do neither of you cook and you just eat cereal/get take-out most nights?  We’ve definitely gone through phases like that!

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Moving Day Carnage

I’ve decided that for however long we’re in New Zealand – whether that is 5 years or 50 years – we are staying put.  No more moving, no more packing, no more unpacking – this is it.

The thing about moving to another country is that you can’t just unpack and throw away the boxes.  You have to request that the boxes be picked up and incinerated.  This is so that any hitchhiking seeds that might have snuck their way into the boxes don’t end up in foreign soil.  I didn’t want to be stuck in a maze of packing material, so I unpacked as quickly as possible while the movers were still bringing things inside.  I got close to half of the unpacking done, then unpacked a little more while they were setting up furniture.  I’d say that right now, we only have about 1/4 of our boxes and packing material still left, which takes up more than enough space as you can see from the photo above!

Most things came through unscathed, but not everything survived the trip…

This is what we refer to as a “compound fracture” in the nursing world!

I’ve never put these figurines on display – they’re a little dated for that – but they have sentimental value.  My mom bought the complete set of “Growing Up Girls” {baby – 16 years old} when I was born and gave me one on each birthday.  Did anyone else’s mom do that?  They’ve moved all over the place, but when I unpacked the box I could hear the clinking and tinkling.  I just knew they were broken, and I was right.  Of the 17 figurines, 9 were damaged, 1 of which is beyond repair.  I was so sad.

This is a wine-stand/glasses rack that we’ve had for years.  I’ve never been crazy about it, so seeing the piece of wood missing wasn’t as big of a deal.  I was more annoyed than anything else.  This part faces the wall, so it’s not too noticeable.  The next one was a bit more painful…

These are photos of Chris’ late grandmother’s cedar chest, and yes, those are chunks of wood that are missing.  I’m trying to tell myself that it adds “character” and is just part of the story of our furniture – something that later on, I can point to and say, “You see that?  That’s from when we moved to New Zealand.”  Sigh.

And last but not least, my antique cake-saver…

The handle on top was broken off, and you can see that some of the enamel paint is flaking.  I was able to re-attach the handle, but it’s definitely worse for the wear.

And you know how they say that when it rains, it pours?  Turns out that right in the midst of all of this, our washing machine went berserk.  You may have seen me post about it on Twitter.  I ran a load of linens {because having them in storage on a ship for 3 months makes them  smell a little funky}, and somehow the drain-pipe came unattached.  I walked out of the study to find water soaking into the carpet and running down into the kitchen, with water literally pouring out of the hose.  Ai yi yi!  I did some reverse engineering that involved me getting sprayed in the face at one point, and finally figured it out.

Then, our new sofa-bed broke.  This actually happened last Saturday, but it took a while to get everything squared away.  After a few phone calls, the furniture store decided that rather than doing a repair they would just replace the sofa.  Yay!  Of course, the removal and delivery day was the morning after all of our goods were moved in, so there I was, surrounded by boxes and laundry, when 2 delivery guys show up.  They were different from the ones who’d first delivered our furniture {the last guys probably quit after they had to deliver our stuff}, so they were in for a shock when they found out that they had to carry the sleeper sofa up 6 flights of stairs… and then carry the damaged one back down.  I kept apologizing, but really, there’s nothing that we could do about it.

Despite the damage, there are many bright sides: (1) our home has that laundry-fresh scent thanks to the overflowing washing machine, (2) the movers were polite and cheerful, (3) they had no trouble finding parking, (4) they did a great job moving things in and getting them set up, (5) I have another new sofa, (6) we have moving insurance which should cover the damaged items, and (7) all of our electronics survived, namely the flat-screen TV.  Our TV has dual voltage or input or whatever you call it, so we’re able to use it in New Zealand.  The Wii, PS3, and DVD players made it through as well.  Chris can breathe a big sigh of relief :-)

I’m looking forward to getting the rest of the boxes out of the way and doing a bit more cleaning and organizing.  Oh, and there’s something else I’m looking forward to:

I start work on Monday!  I’m going in for 3 {12 hour} days this week, which fits perfectly.  I hate working 5 {8 hour} days a week and would much rather have 3 long days and just get it over with.  I’ll be there Monday – Wednesday, giving me an extra long weekend to recover.  Starting a new job is always mentally and physically draining, don’t you think?

I hope that you all have a wonderful weekend!

Left Brain

My mom sent me this video, and it cracks me up!  The speaker is a Southern woman, and (1) I love the way she talks {reminds me of Steel Magnolias} and (2) I can so relate to what she says.  It’s really cute, especially if you’re married to, engaged to, or dating a left-brained kind of guy {she refers to her husband as “Left Brain” in the video}!  The video is just under 8 minutes, but I promise that it’ll make you smile :-)

It’s the Shipping that Kills Ya

Things are more expensive over here.  I think I told you about finding a cute North Face raincoat, only to discover that it cost $450.   I remember the saleswoman starting to say, “It costs four…” and I thought, “Oh sheesh – she’s going to say it costs $400+” and Chris was thinking, “Wow – only $40 – not bad!” Yikes.  I ended up buying a {different} raincoat online in the US, using their free shipping deal to send it to my parents, and then had Mom send it economy to New Zealand.  Much better idea.

Then there’s appliances.  I was shopping with Erin and found a KitchenAid Stand Mixer at Smith + Caughey’s.  For $1,000.  Gulp.

I thought that I’d see how much it might cost to purchase a KitchenAid Stand Mixer online and ship it over here.  Keep in mind that I’m not thinking about plunking down $500+ dollars on a kitchen appliance anytime soon, but I just wanted to see.  It’s not pretty.

Did you see that?  That’s like, half a plane ticket home!  The shipping, duty, and VAT come to a total of $502.90.  That’s only $87.10 less than the mixer.  Welcome to the world of international shipping, right?

I may have to resort to piracy.