Saturay at Williamsburg Farmer’s Market

I woke up this past Saturday, took a look outside at the beautiful sunny weather, and said, “Hey – let’s go to the farmer’s market.”

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We arrived just after 9:30am – prime time at the Williamsburg Farmer’s Market!

I don’t think there has ever been a time that we’ve come away from the market empty-handed.  Vegetables, fruits, bread, pies, candy, nuts, flowers, milk, yogurt… this is just a small list of the many things that you can buy at the market.  And all of it is done on the picturesque Duke of Gloucester street, with lovely shops and restaurants lining both sides.  People walk up and down DoG Street, and many customers are on a first-name basis with the vendors.

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Amy from Amy’s Garden

We purchased 3 crookneck squash, 1 bunch of multicolored swiss chard, and a bag of salad greens from Amy’s Garden.  Amy even let me sample some of the strawberries (delicious!).

Farmers Mrkt Williamsburg

Chris and I enjoy the market for different reasons.  I love to check out the vegetables, fruits, honey, plants, and the music.  Chris loves to stop by any vendor that has out samples and is more interested in the meats, coffee, and baked goods.  We’ve learned that we cover more ground if we split up, so each takes a child and goes their own way.  There are so many people there that you could never feel lonely.

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Glasgow Kiss

Beautiful music and beautiful flowers.

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I walked a bit further down DoG Street and crossed South Henry to get to the rest of the market.

Williamsburg Farmers Market

The farmer’s market naturally leads into Colonial Williamsburg, so we decided to walk on down to the Timber House and get my free annual CW collegiate pass (one of the perks of being married to a professor at W&M).  I always enjoy walking through CW and seeing the beautiful gardens, no matter the time of year.  Even in winter when the ground is barren, I still think it’s pretty.  But it’s hard to top summer’s blooms.

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We headed on home where I washed up our produce and admired it.  Almost too pretty to eat.  Almost!

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The Williamsburg Farmer’s Market is located on Duke of Gloucester Street in Williamsburg, Virginia.  There is free parking at the Francis Street Lot from 8am – noon (or until the lot is full).  Once the lot is full, you can find pay parking for $1/hour in the Prince George Street car park.  There’s also free wi-fi in downtown Williamsburg (click here for more information) so you can post all of your lovely farmer’s market pictures on Facebook or Instagram and make your friends jealous :-)

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Free Jell-O this Weekend!

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Okay, who out there is a fan of Jell-O?  Now through Sunday (May 25th), you can get a box of Jell-O for FREE thanks to SavingStar.  Just click on the text below.

Save 100% when you buy any ONE (1) 3oz. box of JELL-O® Gelatin Dessert. Check back every Friday for a new Freebie!

You could use it to make this yummy strawberry pretzel salad, or hidden pear salad, or these patriotic jello parfaits in honor of Memorial Day :-)

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Walking in Williamsburg: Longhill Loop

My miles walked per week has taken a nosedive since moving back to the States.  Our neighborhood here in Williamsburg is a nice, quiet one and safe for walking with a stroller… but once you’ve walked it a few times, you begin to feel like you’ve seen all there is to see.  I kept resisting the idea of driving to go for a walk (why not just walk?!) but eventually gave up, gave in, and got the kids in the car.

My first walking choice was the Longhill Loop.  I found these walks in the “Great City Walks” brochure over at the City of Williamsburg Parks & Rec Department.

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The route was paved, no stairs, and easily walkable (I did it in sandals, though tennis shoes are a better choice).  Big bonus: it ends in a playground.  Imagine me telling an antsy toddler, “You can either keep whining and we’ll go home, or you can use a big boy voice and we’ll play at the playground when I’m done with the walk.  Which would you prefer?”

The playground won out, no surprise :-)

Despite the little bit of whining, I have to say that both boys did great.  The walk is short (only 2.25 miles) but I still came prepared.

Walking in Williamsburg - Phil & Teds Double Stroller

I love our Phil & Teds stroller – it’s easy to push, not too wide, and not too long. Jack loves the rumble seat. He’s got plenty of leg room for those extra-long legs, and the seat slides off quickly for when I want to convert it to a single.

I brought snacks for the boys (crackers, Cheerios, and bananas) + water for them and me.  I’ve learned that being in a stroller = HUGE increase in appetite for Joe and Jack.  And the longer the walk, the bigger the appetite!

While they were busy eating, I was busy looking.  It reminded me that there’s stuff you see when walking that you easily miss in a car.  I’d been down this route many times in our van, but there was stuff that I didn’t ever seem to notice till today.

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The Virginia Gazette Office

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Albert-Daly Field Plumeri Park Scoreboard

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The Dillard Complex

There’s a section of the path that takes you through the woods for those walkers who prefer to be more “in nature” than “in city”.

Longhill Loop Path - Williamsburg, VA

Longhill Loop Footpath - Williamsburg, VA

I wheeled back into the playground and Joe was jumping in his seat with excitement.

Kiwanis Park, Williamsburg, VA

Important fact: there are toilets at the park but, unless you’re there during a softball game, you’ll need to use the port-a-potty.

The boys had a great time on the playground.  Joe was all over the place but I managed to snag him for a few photos to document our very fun morning :-)

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My goal is to complete all the walks listed in the “Great City Walks” brochure before September 1st.  That’s 23.3 miles of trails and paths (27.2 if you decide to walk the “Landing to Landing” walk both ways), so perhaps I’d better invest in a new pair of sneakers!

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Give Thanks in All Circumstances

Today started with one of those kinds of mornings.  The kind that begin with early-early bed linen changes, giving a toddler an unexpected bath, and taking care of a fussy 1 year old who has a snotty nose.  I started off on the wrong foot for sure, and we were all kind of grumpy.

While cleaning up and hanging laundry outside, I was struck full-force about how often I take blessings for granted or, worse, think of them as nothing more than a burden.  It’s true that sometimes work really is just work, but more often than not I forget to be thankful in all of my circumstances, be they fun or mundane.  I decided to take a few moments to re-set the morning by thinking of how many of my “chores” are in fact blessings in disguise.

For instance: laundry.  Laundry is something that can easily be overlooked as a blessing, especially for me.  Nonetheless, there are many reasons to be thankful for it! I’m thankful that (1) it’s warm enough for me to hang clothes outside, (2) I have a place to hang things up, (3) when I put clothes up on our back porch, I look out and see trees rather than traffic – the sight calms my soul and makes me reflect on the beauty of God’s creation, and (4) that we have clothes to begin with!

2014-05-20 08.07.562014-05-11 10.55.502014-05-11 10.54.36Looking at that view naturally made my mind jump to our house.  It’s easy for me to get mired down in my to-do list of painting walls, changing outlets, updating cabinets, and on and on.  That kind of thinking turns our house from a blessing to a burden.  I remember when we were house-hunting.  Such a hurried week of viewings! I hoped but didn’t think we’d end up in this neighborhood.  We have friendly neighbors who immediately welcomed us.  The area is quiet and safe.  Our house is just the right size – not too big, not too small.  Chris can bicycle to work.  All of that, and still within our budget despite the fact that every other house in the neighborhood was a good $100,000 – $200,000 above what we could have paid.  I know full well that the price wasn’t a fluke – God had a hand in it.

Maybe you’re having one of “those” kinds of days, too.  Perhaps you feel overwhelmed in the midst of all the work you need to do.  It’s easy to feel discouraged but, if you can, take a moment to re-set and try to view your chores as blessings in disguise.  Take comfort in the fact that God has a good and perfect will for your life, even though it may not always feel like it :-)

1 Thessalonians 5:16 – 18 “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

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Bye Bye, Pacifier

Our latest parenting conundrum has been how to help Joseph give up his pacifier.  This is no small feat.

Joe will turn 3 next month.  He has a pacifier at his nap and overnight.  He’s very attached to it.  We tried giving it up cold-turkey when he turned 2 – misery!  After 5 nights of suffering – each night ending with us giving in and letting him use a paci – we decided to put the kibosh on weaning and try later.

“Later” has arrived.  I read various online articles about paci weaning starting last month and, in the end, we’ve opted for a mix of a few different techniques.  We started it at the beginning of this month, May, and it’s going well thus far.  Here’s what we’ve been doing…

1. We talk to him about it a lot. Joe has always been pretty verbal.  He loves to chat and to have us chat right back. We’ve been working to remember to talk about giving up the paci all throughout the day and not just at nap/bedtime.  This has put a bit more of a burden on us to remember, but the more we talk about it, the more he seems to understand.

2. We read to him about it.  This goes along with talking.  Joe loves books, so it plays to one of his strengths and favorite pastimes.  Here are the books we’ve been reading…

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Another book with good reviews is “Pacifiers Are Not Forever”, by E. Verdick.

Joe loves hearing the stories, helping me turn pages, looking at the pictures, and sitting next to me.  It’s a fun, no-stress thing and yet another way to get the message through: it’s time to give up your pacifier.  Within a few days of reading to him, I noticed a change in his behavior.  He began to correct me whenever I praised him by saying that he was “such a big boy”.  He’d say, “I’m not a big boy yet.”  He was beginning to understand that “being a big boy” and “giving up your pacifier” went hand in hand.

3. Say it with a song.  Joe loves to sing.  I found an Elmo song about giving up your pacifier and we’ve begun to sing it.  This is another way that helps him understand while using a method he enjoys.

4. We give choices.  Granted, the choices are limited, but Joe still has a say.  When we first began, I asked if he wanted to go without a paci for a little bit today or wait till tomorrow.  He chose tomorrow.  I asked if he wanted his paci kept in the cupboard or on the closet shelf with the closet light turned on.  He chose the closet shelf.  If he starts to fuss and ask for his paci, I remind him that he wanted it on the closet shelf and that if he looks, he can see it there.

5. There are mild consequences.  We started by having Joe go without a paci for 5 minutes at naps, but this was dependent on him (a) staying in bed under the covers and (b) being quiet.  I don’t expect him to be motionless or silent – he loves to sing in bed and he’s a wiggle worm – but if he starts to fuss and tell me that he needs his paci, I remind him of what he’s expected.  I also remind him that if he chooses not to do those things, then I’ll add time onto the timer.  I gradually stretched out those 5 minutes to 7 minutes, then 10 minutes, then 15 minutes at the start of naps.

6. I’ve been more patient.  It’s easy to forget how hard it is to be a toddler.  Joe loves his paci and doesn’t understand why he can’t keep using it, other than “he’s a big boy”.  It’s confusing to have an adult, even one who loves him, say he can’t use it anymore.  Breaking a well-ingrained habit is hard, but breaking it without understanding the benefit behind it is even harder.  So, I’m gentler.  I read extra books at nap time.  I give lots of cuddles when he’s having a hard time about it.  I say how proud I am and focus on praise rather than punishment.

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There’s our method.  Will it work?  Only time will tell, but I have high hopes.  Monday was his first paci-free nap.  It wasn’t the best nap, but he did (mostly) stay in bed, and there were no tears :-)

Some other suggested weaning methods that I read about include (1) creating a star chart, where each time your child goes without their paci at nap/bed time, they get a star; 5 stars in a row = a prize. (2) Snip a small piece of the paci off each night, so that eventually the paci is gone. (3) Set a “Give Up Your Pacifier” day and have your child mark it on the calendar.  Make a countdown and build excitement behind it each time you cross off a day. (4) Do a “pacifier trade”, where they trade their pacifier for a special prize.  I think that all of these can work really well – it just depends on what fits best with your parenting style and your child!

If you have some experience to share, I’d  love to hear it!  Since this is still an “in process” thing, I’m open to suggestions for what else might work well :-)

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Strawberries in Surry

It’s strawberry season here in Virginia, and we decided to take advantage of it this past weekend by heading over the river to Surry for some pick-your-own fun.

Since it’s Mother’s Day weekend, we anticipated a higher-than-normal turnout at the farm.  We opted to catch an earlier ferry so that we would arrive at the farm by 9am.

2014-05-10 07.38.29There she is, the Williamsburg Ferry!  We arrived in time to catch the 8:35am crossing with just a few moments of waiting (which gave me the opportunity to snap a few photos).

2014-05-10 07.38.46The James River

It was a cloudy day but no rain.  Just riding the ferry was a fun experience for the boys.  We got out of our car and went up into the passenger cabin to explore.

2014-05-10 07.48.29-12014-05-10 07.49.28There are bathrooms in the cabin and windows overlooking the river.  You might see another ferry passing by as it heads in the opposite direction.

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There’s no charge to ride, and the ferries operate 24/7.  For more ferry info, click here.

We made the short drive to the farm and grabbed some baskets (they provide them for you).  I ran into one of the moms that I know from MOPS, which was a nice surprise, and then Chris, the boys, and I headed into the rows.

2014-05-10 08.37.36I wasn’t sure what to expect in terms of stroller-friendliness.  I knew that if it were wet, pushing a stroller would be a chore.  Thankfully there was plenty of space between the rows and our Baby Jogger City Mini fit fine.

We filled our baskets in almost no time at all.  I was transported back in time to picking strawberries in my mom’s garden.  I found myself falling into the old habit of crouching down and sweeping under the leaves, pushing them aside to find the hidden berries that are so easily missed by a casual picker.  I’d barely advanced at all before my gallon basket was topped off.

I headed down the row to find Chris and Joe.  They were having fun, and Chris was letting Joe assist as much as possible.

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We headed up to the farm-stand to pay for our berries and bought a kid-size cup of homemade strawberry ice cream for Joe and Jack to split.

We drove back to the ferry and realized that coming early was a smart move.  As we pulled away from the farm, other cars were beginning to pour in.  The fields were definitely more populated than when we got there.  There was also a longer wait for the return ferry, but thankfully we made it on-board and didn’t have to wait for the next one.

I washed the strawberries and cleaned them shortly after getting home.  My mom gave me a berry scoop spoon that makes removing the stem and hull quite easy.  I was finally able to put it to good use, making it earn it’s keep :-)

2014-05-10 10.41.58The end tally was nearly 12 pounds of strawberries.  I did a search for strawberry jam and found a simple recipe that used nothing but strawberries, shredded apple, lemon juice, and honey.

2014-05-10 11.24.31The jam was great.  I modified the recipe a bit and, rather than using 3 3/4 C honey (that’s a LOT of honey) I used 1 1/2 C honey and 2 1/4 C maple syrup.  I think honey can overpower other flavors at times, and I wanted this to taste like strawberry jam, not strawberry honey jam.  It turned out well.  The jam isn’t as “jelled” as the store-bought variety (the recipe doesn’t use pectin) but it’s fresh and yummy.  Joe, Jack, and Chris gobbled it up on bread, and I had some over yogurt for my evening snack.  Delicious :-)

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May 2014: Financial Goals

We have some fun goals for our house over the next year.  One of those goals is to replace our tired, energy inefficient front door

2014-05-01 12.38.31 2014-05-01 12.38.43 2014-05-01 12.38.08This door is most likely the original one that came with the house back in 1970.  It’s warped and poorly sealed, allowing air in from the outside.  It’s time for it to go.  After researching doors, their materials, and considering installation costs, safety features, storm/screen doors, sidelights, and curb appeal, we settled on $1,000 for replacing this door.  We’d like to meet this goal by September 2014, giving us 4 months.  Another way of looking at this is that we need to save at least $250/month from now till September.

Here are our plans to meet this $1,000 goal…

(1) Give ourselves a weekly food budget rather than monthly.

Aside from the mortgage, groceries are one of our biggest budget items. I’ve found that once-a-month grocery shopping doesn’t work for us and, when I have one lump sum per month, it’s easy to reach that last week and feel tempted to overspend.  Switching to a weekly budget will evenly split up that lump sum and avoid the end-of-the-month temptation to go overboard.

We also decided that we wanted to cut our grocery bill by by 20%, or $100/month.  That’s a reasonable, attainable reduction that we’re handling fine so far (at the end of the 1st week of May). It will save us $400 by September… nearly half of our $1,000 goal.  And over time, it’ll save us $1,200 per year.  Maybe it’s time to think about replacing that sliding patio door… ;-)

(2) Lower our cell phone and internet bills.

We’re one of the small remaining percentage of cell phone users who rely on “dumb phones”, or phones with minimal internet capabilities.  We were in the process of considering a switch to a different company when our current provider did a quick retention spiel and offered to lower our monthly bill by $45.  Considering that the other company didn’t have as good of coverage in our neighborhood, we opted to take the lower bill and stick with our current provider… for now.  Saving $45/month will bring our total savings up from $580.

Now for our internet bill.  We pay $60/month to Cox Communications, which is the only provider in our neck of the woods.  We talked about lowering our data allowance and, while it would mean a big drop from what we’re used to, it would also save us $25/month.  I called Cox to see what they could do and, with one phone call, got them to cut our bill by 20% while keeping our data at the same level.  In other words, we now pay $48/month to have the same amount of data as when we were paying $60/month.  One 15 minute phone call has brought our savings up to $628.

(3) Shop around on car insurance.

We’ve always carried a high level of coverage on car insurance.  We don’t want to save on monthly premiums only to be crushed by high deductibles in the case of a major accident.  Thankfully we’ve never had anything other than small fender-benders due to icy roads, but you never know what the future holds.  As a result, our insurance is a bit higher than if we carried a bare-bones policy.

I’ve been comparing insurance companies, checking rankings to see which ones are high performers in terms of customer satisfaction, claim processing, etc., and found that we can switch to an equally respected company while saving $10/month.  If we switch our home owner’s insurance over, we’ll save more and, if we do a 6 month lump sum payment, we save more on top of that.  I know that $10 may not seem like much or might sound like too much hassle for what it’s worth, but it means we up our savings to $688 in 4 months, leaving only $312 remaining until we reach our $1,000 goal.

UPDATE: After calling our current insurance company and asking if there were any discounts for which we might qualify, I learned that we could lower our mileage.  I knew what our car’s mileage was when we bought it a year ago, and it was clear that we’d overestimated how much we drive.  Lowering our mileage by 2,000 miles saved us ~ $10 per month.  I also learned that while they don’t offer a lump-sum payment discount, we do avoid monthly service fees if we pay all at once.  The service fees aren’t a lot – about 2% savings annually – but it’s still something to keep in mind!

(4) Keep up our other money-saving behaviors.

Adding up all of the savings from the changes above, we still need to save an additional $78 per month over 4 months to get a new door.  I believe that this is achievable thanks in part to other money-saving behaviors that we’ve adopted (I’ll share about those in another post).  Still, I want to make a point of drawing my attention to it, and so I’ve designated another line item in the budget of $78.  At the start of each month, $78 automatically gets put into that line item.  In my world, once something has been “spent” in the budget, then it’s g-o-n-e.

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I should mention that there’s one line-item in our budget that’s non-negotiable.  Every month, we tithe 10% of what we earn to our church. I’ll admit that there have been months when I’ve hesitated before sending the check, thinking “I could use that money for…”  It’s tempting to put my trust in a job, my earning potential, our bank account, or our ability to stick with a budget rather than trusting God.  But I know that all things, even our front door, are in His hands.  Life can change quickly.  Finances can come crashing down, jobs can be lost, health can be ruined.  God remains the same.  I have to remember that when I start to fuss and worry.  God remains the same, and He is always good.

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We’re trying to be good stewards with what we’ve been given – our health, our income, our family – and hopefully we’ll meet our goal by September.  If that’s the case, I plan to get estimates from the 4 door sales/installation companies in town and see if we can find a deal.  Hopefully, we’ll get a front door that allows a lot of natural light and is under-budget, something similar to the door below, but we’ll see!  Regardless of what it looks like, I’m fairly certain that any decently made door that we get will end up saving us money in the long run in terms of heating/AC bills!

What about you?  Are you struggling with worry and stress over your budget?  Is there a goal that you have in mind, something that you’d like to save for?  What are some changes that you might be able to make to meet that goal?

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Month of May: Time for a Change!

When you’re depressed, your focus becomes very, very narrow.  My own focus became so narrow that anything beyond making it through the day was too much to think about.  Exercise, eating healthy, getting enough sleep… all of those were things that I knew would help me feel better, but I had neither the energy nor the inclination to keep them up.

It’s time to change that.  I’ve been feeling better, my emotions are no longer down in the dumps, and I’ve started a regular work-out class.  I’m once more able to think about having a fit lifestyle and I’m excited to get back into the routine of making wise choices about my diet and my fitness.

Before I list my goals, I want to share a bit of my motivation.  My family is a huge reason for me to get back into a healthy lifestyle.  I want to set a great example for my little boys as well as be an encouragement to my husband as they make healthy choices.  As the mom, I have a lot of influence in terms of what we eat, how food is prepared, the amount of exercise we get, and our sleep patterns.  It’s very important to me that I promote good choices in all of those areas, and the best way to do that, for me, is to do it myself and lead by example.

Goals for May

  1. Cut out all processed/refined sugar.  I’ve done this once before, about 4 months after Joe was born.  I won’t lie, it was tough.  I felt so much better afterward, though, and learned a lot about healthy alternatives.  Lately, I’ve felt as though I can’t stop craving sugar – it’s crazy.  The plan is to follow the same changes as last time – allow myself small amounts of raw honey or maple syrup when I want to sweeten something, but no foods with any sugar or other added sweetener of any sort.
  2. Continue exercising.  I’ve been going to “Body and Soul” class here in Williamsburg for the last 3 weeks.  It’s 3 mornings/week, 75 minutes/class, and has childcare.  It’s a great class and pushes me.  It’s made me aware of how much I’ve slacked off.  Doing planks – something that used to be easy-peasy for me – are now hard.  I can feel the extra weight on my body and it frustrates me, but I’m glad that I’m doing something about it instead of continuing down an unhealthy path.  What’s more, even though class is hard, I enjoy it.  I usually end up laughing (briefly!) a couple of times during the workout because of the antics of other attendees or the leader.  Endorphins = natural antidepressants!
  3. Cut down on caffeine.  When we moved to Williamsburg and I was struggling emotionally, I found that I either couldn’t fall asleep because of anxiety, or I couldn’t face getting out of bed in the morning because of stress.  One of the ways that I coped was to up my caffeine intake.  I went from drinking 1 cup of black tea to 3 or sometimes 4 cups of black tea.  I even started drinking caffeinated soda again, something that I hadn’t done in years.  I’m now back to zero soda and 2 cups of tea in the morning, but I want to get it down to only 1 cup of tea.  So as of May, only 1 cup of black tea per day.  I have green tea here at home, so if I’m really craving a warm cuppa, I can make some of that instead.

Whew – big changes!  I’m looking forward to them, though, and I’m looking forward to revisiting old “no refined sugar” recipes, trying out some new ones, and sharing them with you, my lovely readers.  I’ve also got some fun financial goals (yes, fun financial goals) for May, too, that I plan to share in my next post.  Stay tuned!

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Do you have any goals that you’d like to work on?  What are your motivations for making healthy choices?

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12 Months Old – Happy Birthday, Jack!

My, oh my.  An entire year has come and gone since you joined our midst, Jack!  What a fun, happy little boy you are.  I’m so glad that I have the opportunity to be your mother, and that I have had the pleasure of watching you grow and change over these last 12 months.  We are so proud of you and love you to distraction.

Jack 4-24-14The above photo was taken at New Quarter Park here in Williamsburg, just 2 days shy of your 1st birthday.  Joe is in the background, peeking over the stairs to the slide.  You absolutely love slides and whenever you have a chance to go down them, you enjoy it to the fullest.  That was a fun day of walking the trails and letting you and and your brother play on the playground.

Joe and Jack 4-24-14Joe was a bit concerned that you would hurt yourself going down the slide, but you had no such fears – you were ready to zoom on down, trusting that I would be there to catch you :-)  And I was, of course.  Hopefully I or your father will be there to catch you many times over the years and help you learn from any mistakes that you make or trouble that comes your way.  I pray that you have a relatively trouble-free life, but I know from experience that hardship is one of the best ways to grow faith and strengthen your character.  For as long as we are able, we’ll be there by your side to pray for you and support you, whatever comes your way.

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Here are a few updates since my last post about you.  You change so much each day!

General Health

You haven’t had any major health issues.  A bit of teething, a bit of a runny nose, but no major illnesses.  You’ve had some issues with dry skin these last few months and we’ve been using Aveeno baby lotion and shampoos to help with that.  It seemed to really flare up over the winter months but, with daily application of the lotion and limiting your exposure to regular soaps, it seems to be improving.  Your big brother and daddy have the same issues, so it’s not worrisome to me.

Sleep

You’ve dropped down to 1 nap a day, which typically takes place around 12:30/1pm and then goes till around 3pm… or sometimes even 4pm depending on how tired you are.  It’s not easy being a baby, and sometimes your big brother and the day’s activities wear you out.  You go to bed around 7:30pm and then wake up anywhere between 6 – 7am.  It’s rare for you to wake up in the night but, if you do, weren’t too bothered by it.  We still do the 5-minute test, where we turn the baby monitor off for a few minutes and then turn it back on to see if you’ve stopped crying.  I’d guess that, 90% of the time, you’ve gone back to sleep.

You love to sleep with a pacifier but try not to give one to you at any other time.  You wear a zip-up sleeping gown (it’s the same summer sleeping gown that your big brother used to wear).  It’s sleeveless and made of thin cotton, but it provides a little extra warmth.  That comes in handy since you love to move around in your crib and often kick off your blankets.  You also love to sleep with your “silkie” or “lovey”, which is a silky little blanket that your grandmother gave you.  If we have to take a road trip and your nap or bedtime falls during when we’ll be in the car, I’ve learned that having your lovey helps a lot in encouraging you to sleep.  It’s like once you have it in your hands, you realize, “OK – this is time for me to go to bed”.  Not always, but enough to make it worth bringing your blanket along!

Eating

You love to eat!

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You like nothing better than to grab the spoon and try to feed yourself.  This means messes and for some reason, I’m not as keen on the mess-making as you are :-)  You still nurse 3 times a day: after breakfast, after lunch, and after dinner.  You don’t need to be nursed to sleep, though, and that’s a blessing.  Honestly, you don’t really need to be nursed at all in the evening.  We’ve learned that, in a pinch, you can get by just fine with a sippy cup of warm whole milk (figured this out after I was at a meeting that ran late, and your daddy had to improvise).  Still, I can’t deny that I enjoy the cuddle time and it makes me happy that I get to hold you, rock you, and talk to you.

General Activity

You love to scoot, so much so that you’ve gotten the nickname “Scoot”.  You will scoot right out the door if we let you!  I’ve had to put up more and more babyproofing devices: power strip covers, toilet seat locks, cabinet locks, and more baby gates.  The baby gates are a true sanity saver for me.  Here’s a video of you scooting around the house.  It is so fun to watch you move!

You babble and coo and love to growl at us :-)  You’ve said “hi” and “bye” and you’ll say “Mama” and “Dah-Dah”, but I can tell that you’re more reserved than Joe, and that is completely, absolutely fine.  You’re a smiley baby and whenever I bring you to the nursery, the women that are in there get a big grin and say, “It’s Jack!”  They tell me that you are such a happy, easy-going baby and I agree with them.  It’s pretty easy to figure out what causes you to fuss and you usually love to play and be snuggled.

Joe and Jack

Your big brother is truly watching out for you on a regular basis.  Yes, there’s some sibling friction, but that’s to be expected.  He will often come running to me to let me know that you’re doing something you ought not do (ahem, such as attempting to pull the cords out of the safety cover of the outlet strip).  He plays with you and you can really hold your own most of the time.

There was one incident that I want to share.  You and Joe were laughing so hard.  I was in the kitchen and didn’t know what was going on.  I peeked my head around the cabinets and saw you two facing each other, just laughing.  Then, I saw you reach out and slap Joe in the face.  You would laugh and laugh, and Joe would, too, but I was shocked!  I came over and said, “Joe, is Jack hitting you in the face?”  You slapped him again and you both laughed.  Joe said, “Yes”, and I asked if it was hurting him.  “Yes”, he said, but Jack thinks it’s funny.

I didn’t know what to think – here was my first child being hit in the face by my second child, and they were both laughing about it!  Even though it hurt him, Joe was so happy that you were happy that he didn’t want to stop you.  I intervened, though.  I took Joe’s chin, turned his face to me, and saw a red spot where your tiny hand had been hitting his cheek.  I told him that it was OK for him to move away when you were hitting him, or to come tell me, and that even if you thought it was funny, I didn’t want him to be hurt.  There were a few more times where you tried to hit him and would laugh, but Joe learned to move away.  Still, it was a strangely sweet thing to witness, even if doesn’t make much sense to anyone else.

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How Mom is Doing

I’m doing better.  I’ve started taking an exercise class 3 times a week.  I’ve enrolled your big brother in preschool – it starts this Fall, is 2 mornings a week, and I’ll be volunteering there in some capacity.  I still go to MOPS and have volunteered to be the registrar for next year.  I’ve completed volunteer training at the local hospice and have started to volunteer there 2 evenings a month.  In other words, I’m becoming more involved in the community and spending less time at home being a hermit.  There’s nothing wrong with being a homebody, but I’ve found that it leads to depression in my case, and an unhappy mother = an unhappy family!  Now, I’m happier, and so is everyone else :-)

Other Odds and Ends

I just know that you’re going to need a haircut soon.  I”m not sure I”ll be able to bring myself to do it.  You have such soft, white-blonde hair and so much of it!  I suppose it will have to be done – it’s reached the point where I can easily pull it into a ponytail atop your head – but I don’t look forward to it.  Just one more move away from babyhood.  Next thing I know, you’ll be heading out the door for your driver’s test!

We love you and are proud of you.  Again, I’m so glad that I, out of everyone else in the world, get to be your mother.  I love you, Jack.

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A {Belated} Happy Easter

Happy Easter!

Joe and Jack - Easter 2014Joseph and Jack – Easter 2014

The above photo was the best that I could get of the two little boys.  Chris was away at a conference in Boston over Easter Weekend, so it was just the three of us.  We are glad that Chris is home once more, safe and sound.

I was very excited about being able to decorate some eggs with the boys.  Jack, obviously, is too young for that, but I figured that Joe was the perfect age for some egg dyeing.  He was so excited, as was I, but you know what?  It soon became clear that I’m a novice at this whole egg-dyeing thing.  It wasn’t till after I’d hard-boiled them that I realized, “Hmm… these are brown eggs.  I wonder if the dye will even show up on the shells…”

As it turns out, the dye did not show up well on the shells at all.  However, I figured that we would still be able to eat some hard-boiled eggs and Joe would have fun dipping them in the brightly colored water.  Except then I forgot to put them in the fridge once all was said and done.  It wasn’t till the next morning that I realized they were still sitting in the basket on the counter.  Sigh, oh well.  Joe still had a good time!

2014-04-17 09.43.13-1 2014-04-17 09.43.54-1 2014-04-17 09.44.09 2014-04-17 09.44.21-1I love Jack’s face in that last photo.  He really wanted to be a part of the process and was getting annoyed that he couldn’t join in.  Sorry, Jack – I’d rather not have the rugs dyed bright pastel colors if I can help it :-)

I hope that you all had a lovely Easter, too!

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What You Really Learn When Fixing Up an Old House

I have to be honest with you guys.  I had a post planned in which I wrote all about what a great job I was doing at replacing the old, dated outlets in our house.  I had pictures, a mini-tutorial of sorts.  Goodness, but I was pleased with myself.  I didn’t say it outright, but it was most definitely communicated.

And then, I blew out a breaker and lost all patience.  Every thought that I’d had about how “grateful” I was to be learning so many things, how many wonderful teaching experiences there are in an old house… pfbbt!  They went out the window.  Here’s what happened…

I was thrilled at the progress I was making with replacing our outlets.  Below is a before and after photo:

UntitledOut with the old, in with the new.  Good-bye mismatched, chipped outlets.  Hello white, updated outlets.  In addition to looking nicer, the new outlets do a much better job at holding the babyproofing outlet caps in place.  Even I have trouble removing them, whereas they basically fell out of the old outlets if you so much as brushed up against them.

But before-and-after photos aren’t the main point of this post.  No, the main point is that I have learned some things while making updates around here, and those lessons haven’t all come along in an easily spelled out format.  Some have them have been hard to learn and have required repeated instruction :-/

1. Don’t do more than you can handle.  Seriously, with 2 little children I have learned through painful process that if you think you should call it a day, then for Pete’s sake call it a day.  Don’t be like me and say, “Oh, but I can probably squeeze one more thing in.”  That sort of thinking leads to you standing in the dark holding a flashlight in your teeth while unscrewing breaker boxes and grumbling about your many trips to the hardware store.  You’ll end up cranky and feisty and no one likes that.

2. Please, please remember that when you’re new at DIY and home repair, it truly is a “one step forward, two steps back” kind of process.  I cannot tell you how many times I’ve stopped, admired my handiwork, then cocked me head to the side and thought, “Well that’s not right!” and then had to take apart what I just did.  I feel like banging my head on the wall sometimes because, clearly, it takes a long time for me to get stuff through this thick skull of mine.

3. Buy quality products.  Did I tell you about the time that I painted the guestroom ceiling – two coats! – using the budget bin paint ‘n primer combo that the salesperson recommended?  It was their store brand, naturally.  Total waste of money and time.  Same thing with tools.  Don’t go cheap.  If you have to, save up your money and, in the meantime, find a handy neighbor who won’t mind letting you borrow a few things.  Or maybe you’re one of those lucky few who live near a tool library (if only they had one of these in Williamsburg… or a toy library… I’d take either one).  And when it comes to paint, go to a paint store, such as Benjamin Moore or Sherwin Williams, if you prefer that brand (I like Benjamin Moore).  I’ve gotten a lot of great advice from the salesperson at Benjamin Moore in our hometown.

4. Don’t put home repair or home improvement projects before the relationships in your life.  I’ve been fussy and irritable with the boys and with Chris when things don’t go according to my plans for where this house should be.  I have been irrational in my expectations and, while Jack hasn’t really felt it, I’m sure that Joe has.  There will be lots of time for painting and updating.  There is a limited amount of time that Joe wants to crawl up next to me on the couch and have me read book after book to him.  Sometimes I forget that when working my way through my list of DIY items.

I’m sure that I’ll learn a lot of other lessons as I continue to work on this place, but those are the 4 main things that I’ve taken away from the process thus far.  In the end, I think that a lot of it revolves around being patient :-)

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Happy Meatballs

One of my cheap, go-to dinners is spaghetti.  A box of noodles + a jar of sauce = food that everyone in the family will eat, and it all comes together in less than 20 minutes.  Toss in some rolls and add a side of salad or frozen veggies, and it’s a fairly healthy meal.

Lately, though, it’s seemed a bit lacking.  I made my own sauce, but that didn’t help.  I tried adding Parmesan cheese.  Nope – that wasn’t the issue, either.  I had to be realistic – it’s spaghetti, for crying out loud.  There’s not much you can do to it to improve the end result, right?

Well, except perhaps add meatballs!

2014-04-09 17.11.11I’ve generally steered well away from making meatballs for two reasons: (1) they seem complicated, and (2) I can remember making them as a child and feeling as though my hands would freeze off thanks to the barely thawed beef.  I’ve only made meatballs once before as an adult and I didn’t like the end product enough to repeat the process.

2014-04-09 16.15.18I was inspired to try again when I saw a recipe in one of my new favorite cookbooks, “Not Your Mother’s Make-Ahead and Freeze Cookbook” by Jessica Fisher.  Jessica’s is a basic version that makes a bunch.  I like that these meatballs can be dressed up (with BBQ sauce) or kept as is for a simple, filling add-in for pasta night.  The recipe was quick.  It was easy.  It was tasty.

2014-04-09 16.26.31My only moment of panic came when I realized I was short by about 1/3 of a cup of breadcrumbs.  Well, shoot.  Then, I remembered the bag of bread heels I had stashed in the freezer.  I don’t mind the heels – Chris, Joe, and Jack won’t touch them.  Rather than toss them (such a waste!) I put them in a Ziploc bag, stored it in the freezer, and figured that I’d eventually find a use.

Today was that “eventually”. I followed a recipe onlineet viola! – breadcrumbs.

2014-04-09 16.17.06I knew there was a reason to save those unwanted pieces of bread.  Now they’ve found a yummy home in meatballs.

A very yummy home, judging by the looks of the kiddos.  Joe and Jack gobbled up the meatballs..  I couldn’t believe how quickly they downed them.

2014-04-09 17.15.04Reaching for more meatball

2014-04-09 17.14.19“No time for smiles, Mom – I must eat more meatballs!”

Even Chris, who doesn’t usually order meatballs when he gets spaghetti at a restaurant, consumed them with a rapidity that would have impressed any competitive eater.

And yes, they’re freezer-friendly and yield a bunch – 6 dozen.  If you figure it as 3 meatballs = 1 serving, then a dozen meatballs = 4 servings.  That means for my family of 4 (and yes, Jack ate all of his serving) then 6 dozen meatballs means 6 easy spaghetti + meatballs nights.  That makes my boys happy.

Happy boys, happy pocketbook, happy mama :-)  You’re welcome.

Here’s a link to the recipe on Jessica’s blog, Life as Mom.  Click over there for the instructions on how to make these yummy meatballs.  I highly recommend her book, too.  I borrowed it from our local library at first (I hate buying a cookbook only to discover that I won’t use it, so I’ve started borrowing them from the library first).  I was bookmarking so many of the recipes that I realized I should just go ahead and buy the thing.  I’m so glad that I did – I make her drop biscuits every other week, or so it seems, and the tamales?  Delicious.

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Petting Zoo, the Easter Bunny, and Yankee Candle

I’ve lived in so many places throughout my life, from growing up in the country to living in the ‘burbs to moving to a huge city to living in a small, historic town.  I truly can’t decide what place I’ve liked best.  I’ve found that each spot has its own perks and attractions.

One perk of living in Williamsburg is that there’s a lot of family-friendly things to do here, regardless of the season.  This weekend, we checked out the “Spring Fling” week at the Yankee Candle Flagship Store on Richmond Road, a 10 minute drive from our house.

YCFSimage via Google Maps

I read about Yankee Candle’s Spring Fling thanks to a great local resource – WilliamsburgFamilies.com – and decided that it would be a fun (and free) activity to do with the boys.  Petting zoo, Easter Bunny photos, scavenger hunts, paint your own toy horse… I was sold (and so were they)!

2014-04-06 11.33.32-2Joe and Jack loved seeing and petting the animals from the Teeny Tiny Petting Zoo (a mobile petting zoo in the Hampton Roads area – we’ve had the pleasure of visiting them before at a William & Mary event).  The zoo employees were hands-on as well as careful of the animals’ welfare.  Joe loved the baby bunnies and ducklings.  Jack loved everything!

Other animals included piglets, chickens, sheep, goats, a pony (or perhaps miniature horse), a calf, a llama (or maybe an alpaca?), and a mini donkey.

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Back story behind the above photo: Joe was nervous of this “strange-looking” creature, so he held Jack back to protect him.  Very sweet!

2014-04-06 11.29.11-2 2014-04-06 11.24.50 2014-04-06 11.29.59We headed into the Yankee Candle Flagship Store after the petting zoo.  It’s a big building and I expected to be swamped by the smell of scented candles, something that tends to give me a headache.  But, to my surprise, that wasn’t the case – we found that it’s a lot more than a candle store.  I remarked to Chris that it resembles a village, complete with a bridge.  It wasn’t till the next day that I found out that the “village” concept is just what Yankee Candle intended.  Here’s a brief tour of the store, if you’re interested:

We headed behind the village fountains for photos with the Easter Bunny.

2014-04-06 11.40.45The boys were smiley for the pictures and neither of them were scared (I couldn’t help thinking of the “Scary Easter Bunny” from AFP while snapping these pictures).

There are many other “Spring Fling” activities for the rest of the week – more Easter Bunny photos, crafts, LEGO building, and even children’s theater.  We’re glad that we were able to go and I’m thankful that we live in a town with fun events like this.

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Children’s Museum of Richmond

This past weekend was “Museums on Us” weekend by Bank of America.  If you have a BoA or Merrill Lynch credit or debit card, you get free entry to any of the museums on their list.  We decided to use our BoA debit card and headed to the Children’s Museum of Richmond, or “CMOR”.

CMOR - WilliamsburgCMOR has 3 different locations: (1) Central Location, (2) Short Pump, and (3) Chesterfield.  We learned that they have plans to open a 4th location in Fredericksburg, VA sometime soon.  Of these locations, the Central and Short Pump ones were closest to us.  Each CMOR spot has different exhibits and, since we’ve never been before, we weren’t sure which one to check out first.  In the end, it was Chris’ stomach that made the choice – he wanted to eat at The Cheesecake Factory, so we chose the one that was closest to that.  I’d also driven past the Short Pump shopping center once before when meeting my brother-in-law and sister-in-law en route to their residency interview weekends, so I knew that it was a nice area with plenty of parking.

2014-04-05 11.02.25We showed our BoA cards and both Chris and I got in without paying any fee.  Joe was $8 and Jack, being under 12 months old, was free.  Four people for $8 seems pretty good, in my opinion.

Joe immediately ran straight for the vacuum-powered tubing system at the front of the museum.  It was a simple but clever design – put a scarf in the entry, and watch it zip through the tubes.  The scarf is then blown out of the system and floats to the ground…. or is chased maniacally by eager toddlers :-)

2014-04-05 10.04.26Putting the scarf in the tubing

2014-04-05 10.04.55-2Racing to catch it

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All the boys were well behaved, including Joe, and took turns with only a few gentle reminders from parents :-)

Jack had his share of fun, too.  There’s an area for little ones with plenty of soft climbing pieces and fun toys.  Here’s a photo of “Mother Goose’s Tot Spot”:

2014-04-05 09.52.37Jack found all sorts of things to do in there.

2014-04-05 09.51.55 2014-04-05 10.26.51 2014-04-05 10.27.26-3Meanwhile, Joe was playing in the pirate ship, “buying” groceries, testing out the train table, and so on and so forth.

2014-04-05 10.01.29 2014-04-05 10.09.30 2014-04-05 10.08.21Jack didn’t spend all of his time in the Tot Spot.  We also listened to a story (“Smitten”) and checked out the indoor playground.

2014-04-05 10.00.39 2014-04-05 09.58.58-1 2014-04-05 09.58.58-2 2014-04-05 09.59.18-2 2014-04-05 09.59.09This was Jack’s first solo slide trip and it was a great success.  I see many more trips down the slide in his future :-)

One of Joe’s favorite aspects of the museum was the train ride.  Rides are operated by museum employees and only at certain times of the day.  Joe was having such fun that I couldn’t get a good photo of him, but I did my best.

2014-04-05 10.01.55 2014-04-05 10.42.34The museum is stroller friendly and has plenty of family bathrooms.  There’s even a special room for nursing mothers.  I saw these frequently in NZ but I think that this is the first time I’ve seen one since being back in the USA.  I had to get photographic evidence.

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The museum was fun and the Short Pump location has shopping, restaurants, and is fairly pedestrian friendly.  We did a bit of walking around while we were there.  I got excited when I saw Burger Bach, a New Zealand inspired eatery, but Chris was pining for Cheesecake Factory.  Since Burger Bach is so close to the museum, it’s just an excuse for us to come back to the area and visit again.

2014-04-05 11.01.47If you’re near Richmond, VA, I’d recommend checking out the museum.  It has plenty to do for small children.  I didn’t get any photos of the art area, as Joe didn’t have an interest in that, but that would be another fun thing to try out in the museum.

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Homemade Pear Butter

Joe and Jack are big peanut butter and jelly fans.  We go through a lot of jelly these days.  I already make my own peanut butter (so easy) but decided to give making some jam a try.  The only thing is that most of the jam fruits that I would want to use (strawberries, blueberries, blackberries) aren’t in season yet.  I was walking around the produce section at the grocery, saw that pears were way on sale (even more economical than apples) and thought: pear butter!  So I bought 10 pounds of pears and got started.

2014-04-04 08.29.12I searched online and found quite a few yummy looking recipes, but ultimately decided on this one from Food Fanatic.  Her recipe calls for cardamom but, since cardamom isn’t a spice that I usually cook with, I decided to use a little extra nutmeg instead.  Tasted just fine to me!

2014-04-04 08.38.19A nice bonus is that when you make this, your house will smell delicious – like fall and an orchard and all kinds of yummy spices.  I kept wanting to eat the pear butter straight from the pot while testing its consistency.  Chris and I tested it that night on some vanilla ice cream… mmm, delicious!

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Another Freecyle Dresser

My new Freecycle dresser!  It’s currently located in the living room and will most likely remain there as an entertainment stand / storage spot.  A little rough around the edges (literally) but I still love it.

2014-04-03 07.36.112014-04-03 07.36.25Made in the ’70s (like our house) according to its former owner.  I managed to move it out of the minivan and into the house by myself.  Chris didn’t notice it at first, but when he did he was quite impressed that I’d taken care of all the moving on my own.  Now to figure out what color to paint it.  I was thinking I’d go somewhere in the gray color palette, perhaps along the lines of this dresser from One Kings Lane:

Dark gray sides, top, and fixtures with lighter gray drawer fronts.  I need to think on it awhile but we’ll see what happens :-)

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Winston-Salem, NC

I took Joe and Jack on a mini-vacation to Winston-Salem, North Carolina this past weekend.  In good traffic it’s about a 4 hour drive.  With 2 little boys, it takes a bit longer :-/

WMG-WSOn the drive down, I ended up having to stop 3 times – 3 times for a 4 hour drive!  I was ready to pull my hair out but between Joe needing to use the bathroom (1 stop) and Jack having a meltdown (2 stops) there wasn’t much else that I could do.  Jack had another meltdown about 10 miles from our destination and I ended up “throwing” whatever I had at him – toys, snack cups with Cheerios (what a mess that turned into), my cell phone… anything to keep him happy.

We were in W-S to see my brother-in-law and sister-in-law as they did some house-hunting.  They’re both starting their residencies (internal medicine and pediatrics) later this year and will be at Wake Forest.  Along for the fun was my little nephew, J, and my mother-in-law and father-in-law.  I knew that it would be a short trip (Friday morning – Saturday evening) but I’ve never been to W-S, Chris had a lot of work that he needed to catch up on, so I figured, “Why not?” and headed out.

The weather there was gray and rainy.  Definitely a bit depressing.  I still went out as much as I could in such a short time and got to see some of the downtown arts district.  We also visited the SciWorks Museum.  Joe had a blast there.  It’s a very hands-on place and perfect for busy toddlers (not so great for babies, but it’s hard to find something to please everyone).  Here’s a picture of Joe riding the vacuum-powered jet-pack chair…

2014-03-29 11.02.57 2014-03-29 11.02.47These photos don’t do the chair justice.  It had a vacuum (pictured on the left-side of the photo) that was activated by pushing 2 buttons on either side of the chair (you can see them in the picture – they’re yellow).  Joe, who loves to push buttons, was in 7th heaven.  It went up really high, too – at full height, I’d say that the seat’s bottom was about the level of my head, and I’m 5’8″.  It was hard to get a decent photo because Joe kept pushing the buttons!  He ended up riding it on 3 separate occasions and loved it.

2014-03-29 11.05.37-2The above photo was Joe running around the spiral ramp encircling Foucault’s Pendulum.  It’s so hard to get a photo of this active little guy anymore!

2014-03-29 11.05.51-1Humoring me by standing still and letting me take a photo – clearly not happy at being stopped!

The museum was full of different exhibits ranging from engineering to nature to food to biology.  Here’s Joe climbing the tree slide and coming out at the bottom.

2014-03-29 11.07.49-2 2014-03-29 11.08.22-2Doing a wee bit of fishing with Gramma’s help…

2014-03-29 11.09.59 2014-03-29 11.09.21Running along the floor piano…

2014-03-29 11.20.15Riding “The Magic School Bus”…

2014-03-29 11.34.07-2As you can probably surmise by Joe’s facial expression in the above photo, he was going a bit crazy with all of the things to see and do at the museum.  This was the last photo of our trip there because, shortly after I took it, he had a meltdown.  Too many fun things to see and do all at once!

One feature that I particularly appreciated about the museum was the “FoodWorks” area.  Essentially, this was a big cafeteria-style space with chairs and tables, a microwave, and vending machines.  You can bring in your own lunch rather than having to stop to go elsewhere or feel like your only option is whatever the museum might be selling.  We brought some peanut butter & jelly sandwiches and other snacks and had a low-key meal before enjoying the exhibits.

Another nice perk is that the SciWorks Museum is a member of the Association of Science – Technology Centers (ASTC), as is the Virginia Living Museum.  This meant that our VLM family + guests membership got us into the SciWorks Museum for no charge (along with everyone else in our party since we have a membership that allows for 3 guests).  We are heading to Florida this summer for another family get together, and I’ve already scoped out the ASTC facilities there that niwe can visit at no charge.  I’ve also found that there are 2 participating institutions in my parents’ hometown, so we can easily visit those whenever we visit them.

We’re really glad that Chris’ brother, wife, and son will be moving a bit closer to us and I enjoyed our time in Winston-Salem.  I have no doubt that we’ll be back for a repeat visit before 2014 is up :-)

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11 Months

And just like that, Jack has turned 11 months old!

Jack Tucker 11 mosJack Tobias Tucker – 11 Months Old (taken during trip to Winston-Salem, NC)

Here’s a little update on how things have been with this guy since last month’s update…

General Health

Wow – talk about teething.  With Joe, teeth seemed to just appear and we’d say, “Oh look – Joe’s got another tooth!”.  With Jack, we know that they’re coming long before they make an appearance.  I’ve been at my wit’s end a few times because it’s clear he’s uncomfortable.  My usual remedies of chilled teething toys and the occasional bit of Tylenol haven’t been helping.  I’ve started to use some dissolving natural teething tablets which have seemed to minimize discomfort, but I’m also thinking about purchasing one of those amber teething necklaces.  There are some for sale at a local shop (For Mom and Keiki), and I may buy one if he keeps up the teething troubles…

Polished Multicolor Amber Teething Necklace

Other than teething, he seems to be doing well overall.  We’ve had to start giving him a little bit of prune juice each morning to help keep things moving.  We had tried mineral oil, but that left such a mess in his cloth diapers – so smelly and trapping everything.  I ended up having to strip all of his diapers using grease-cutting dish soap and I’d rather not repeat that again.

Sleep

Jack is slowly weaning down to 1 nap per day.  He is about 50/50 when it comes to morning naps.  If we’re out doing something, he doesn’t need a nap.  If we’re at home, he starts to cry and rub his eyes.  It’s as though he’s bored and figures, “Well, if we’re not doing anything else I may as well sleep.”

He takes an afternoon nap without fail for about 2 hours, sometimes 2 1/2 hours.  Bedtime is around 7:30pm and he is generally up at 6/7am.  It’s not uncommon for him to wake during the night.  I’ve found that if I turn the baby monitor off for a few minutes and then turn it back on, he’s put himself back to sleep.  However, if I get up and check on him in person then he will be wide awake and wanting to nurse.  So, guess which method I always try first?  Yep – turning off the baby monitor!

Eating

Jack still loves to eat.  He’s begun to throw food a lot more which has led to some interesting interactions.  Whenever he does this we use the, “Oh, that’s sad” method.  We’ll say, “Oh, that’s sad – I guess you’re all done eating.”  I’ll take away whatever food is on his tray and push his highchair back from the table.  The other evening he was throwing his green beans.  It was clear that he wanted to eat the chicken that I had been feeding him, but in my book if he’s hungry, he’ll eat the green beans, too.  So, I did the “so sad” thing and after 3 times of doing that, he happily ate the green beans.  We had a similar experience with some yellow summer squash.

Jack does not like to wear a bib.  Putting one on him is an exercise in futility.  He will either rip it off immediately or right when you think he’s gotten used to it.  So, we don’t have him wear one.  Joe loves a bib, Jack doesn’t.  This means more outfit changes, but I’d rather do that than pin his arms to his sides each time he has a bib on.

General Activity

Jack is a scooter.  He’ll sit on his bum and scoot-scoot-scoot around the room.  No crawling and no walking, just a whole lot of scooting!

He loves to “share” whatever he’s eating and will often hold it up to me and attempt to put it in my mouth.  However, if I actually put it in my mouth and eat whatever he’s offering (a Cheerio, a piece of carrot, etc.) he looks shocked that I would do such a thing. I think he’s mimicking what he sees us do with him.  He loves to look at himself in the mirror and has been trying to pull himself up into a kneeling position using the kiddie table, the foot stool… basically whatever he can find.

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He loves to be in the bathtub but really doesn’t care of lying down on his back in the water.  This is different if he’s in a pool – in a pool, he loves it.  Go figure.  He still loves stroller rides, being in the Ergo carrier, and has started doing this thing where he’ll sit with me on the bed or on the sofa, then throw himself backward and laugh and giggle as if it’s the funniest thing in the world.  Pretty cute :-)

Joe and Jack

Joe has really started turning on the big brother charm.  If Jack starts to cry, Joe will say, “Oh no – Jack’s not feeling well”.  He’ll give Jack sponanteous hugs and kisses that make me smile.

But there’s the other side of sibling relationships: Joe doesn’t care to share things with Jack at all.  We’ve had to have some discussions about how the toys aren’t just Joe’s toys, there the family toys and everyone gets to play with them.  We’ve talked to Joe about sharing and trading.  If Jack has a toy that Joe wants, he has to trade with Jack rather than simply snatching it away.

How Mom is Doing

I’m doing well.  I’m still taking an antidepressant and that seems to have helped a lot, but there are days when I feel like I’ve got a long ways to go before getting back to feeling normal and settled.  I’ve realized how much my depression affected our family dynamic and while I know that things will improve in that regard, I’ve got to keep working at it.

I’ve been taking more time to play and doing less work.  This means that walls still aren’t painted and things are taking longer to get done than what I’d like.  However, this doesn’t stress me out or fill me with anxiety as it has in the past.  I look at it and think, “Well – I’d rather have dingy walls than an unhappy marriage or unhappy children!”

Other Odds and Ends

Jack’s 1st birthday is coming up in April.  His 1st year seems to have gone by so much more quickly than Joe’s 1st year.  I guess it’s true that time does seem to speed up with each passing year.  I haven’t given much thought to a 1st birthday celebration other than to know that it will be small, low-key, and a lot of fun :-)

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Freecycle Dresser Makeover

I love Freecycle.  I used it to dispose of some things we didn’t want to take from NZ back to the USA and have used it a lot since moving to Virginia.  It’s a great way to find new homes for things without putting them in the dumpster.  It’s also good way to get free stuff for yourself.

One of my more recent finds was this dresser, described in the Freecyle ad as “dark green”, a little banged up, but still intact with all of its drawers working.

2014-02-03 13.46.48Hmm.  Doesn’t look dark green to me.  More dark, denim blue, if anything.  There wasn’t a photo of it with the ad, but I’ve learned that most “Freecyclers”, at least in our area, give honest descriptions.  Besides, I wanted a dresser for the guest room and I needed a break from painting walls.  Painting furniture is much more fun than painting walls.

I cleaned off the dresser, removed the hardware and, after some paint, it looked like this:

2014-03-11 12.13.24I applied 2 coats of primer to the dresser and drawers (even the inside of the drawers), then used Wythe Blue by Benjamin Moore in a pearl finish, leaving the drawer insides primer-white.  I had an open can of Rustoleum Nutmeg spray paint that I used on the hardware and on our “Kiaora” sign.  I plan to have some glass cut to go on top of the dresser for extra protection but, other than that, it’s done.

If you haven’t visited Freecycle, you should.  There are groups all over the globe.  You find things on there ranging from pet supplies to baby/toddler clothes to partially used bottles of dishwasher detergent.  I once used it to get rid of a 3/4 full bottle of Burt’s Bee’s baby shampoo, of all things.  One person’s trash is someone else’s treasure.  The amount of group activity varies depending on the community and their socioeconomic make-up, so your area may not be as busy as ours.  We’ve appreciated what we’ve found on there and are always happy with being able to divert stuff from landfills :-)  Check it out!

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